Inkqubo yokuphulukana nomzali iya kujongeka yahlukile kumntu ngamnye. Ngeli xesha, iimvakalelo zinokubongamela abanye kwaye inyani yokuba kufuneka ugqibe imisebenzi ethile ejongene nexesha inokongeza umaleko owongezelelweyo woxinzelelo.
Ukulungiselela Ilahleko ngokweemvakalelo
Ukunikela ubungqina ngenkqubo yokusweleka komzali, nokuba ninobudlelwane obusondeleyo okanye akunjalo, unokuziva unomdla wokuhamba. Kuqhelekile ukuziva uluhlu lweemvakalelo. Isenokuba sele uyiqalile iInkqubo ebuhlungunjengokuba umzali wakho eqale ukuhla, kodwanjengokuba ukufa kwabo kusondela, usenokuziva undindisholo, unomsindo, ucaphukile, uphazamisekile, unentliziyo ebuhlungu, okanye indibaniselwano. Ukuba ufumanisa ukuba eli xesha linzima kakhulu kwaye unengxaki yokutya, ukulala, okanye ukucinga ngayo nayiphi na into, unokucinga ngokuthetha nomcebisi okanye ujoyine iqela lenkxaso.
Amanqaku afanelekileyo- Ungamnceda njani uMhlobo Olusizi Ngeendlela Eziluncedo
- Iingcebiso eziSebenzayo zokuCoca iNdlu emva kokufa
- Amasiko okufa eAfrika
Uluhlu lokutshekisha oluprintiweyo lokuLungiselela okuSebenzayo
Sebenzisa uluhlu lokutshekisha olusimahla olunokukunceda ulungiselele ukusweleka komzali ngendlela ebonakalayo. Ngale ndlela, unamanqaku kwinto esele iqalile kunye noko kusafuneka kwenziwe ukuba umzali wakho asweleke. Khuphela uze uyiprinteusebenzisa iAdobe.
Qonda izicwangciso zabo zomngcwabo
Kusenokwenzeka ukuba umzali wakho ukuxelileumngcwabookanye isikhumbuzo. Ukuba akunjalo, kwaye banako ukunxibelelana nawe, unokufuna ukufumanisa ukuba zeziphi izinto abazikhethayo ngokukhawuleza. Ukuba akukhange kubenjalo, esona salamane okanye umabi welifa oswelekileyo unelungelo lokwenza esona sigqibo sithe tye ecinga ngeminqweno yabo. Unokufuna ukubabuza malunga okanye uthathele ingqalelo:
- Ukuba bangathanda ukungcwatywa,ukutshiswa komzimba, okanye olunye ukhetho oluchaziweyo kwaye phi
- Ukuba kukho abantu abathile abangathanda ukuba kwisikhumbuzo sabo ongazukubazi
- Ukuba banokukhethaizicwangciso zesikhumbuzokwaye ngoobani abangathanda ukukhokela inkonzo
- Ukuba bakhethe ibhokisi okanye ilitye lengcwaba
- Yimalini abayibekele bucala ukulungiselela umngcwabo, okanye ukuba kuya kufuneka uhlawule (qwalasela uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali, onokuba nakho ukukunceda, kunye nezithintelo)
- Ukuba ulungiselelo luya kubanjelwa phi kwaye zingaphi iindwendwe eziqikelelwayo eziza kubakho
Hlela ukuba ngubani oza kuqhagamshelana naye
Ukuba umntu wakho omthandayo uyakwazi ukunxibelelana, qaphela ukuba ngoobani abangathanda ukuza kwisikhumbuzo sabo. Buza malunga namaqela athile ekusenokwenzeka ukuba ebekade engawo, abahlobo bakho besikolo, okanye omnye umntu onokuthi ungamazi. Ukuba bayasokola ukunxibelelana, fikelela kubahlobo babo abasenyongweni kwaye uzame ukufumana uluhlu kunye neenkcukacha zonxibelelwano zabo bacinga ukuba umzali wakho angathanda ukubakhona. Ukwenza uluhlu lwabantu onokunxibelelana nabo kwisikhumbuzo ngaphambi kokuba basweleke kunokukunceda ukuba ucwangcise amalungiselelo omngcwabo ngokukhawuleza okukhulu ngaphandle kokufumana uxinzelelo malunga nokufumana iinkcukacha zonxibelelwano zabantu abathile.
Jonga iSicwangciso soMnikelo weQumrhu
Ukubona ukuba umntu omthandayo yi amalungu omnikeli Ungajonga ilayisensi yabo yokuqhuba okanye iifom zesikhokelo sezempilo. Ukuba banikela ngamalungu kwaye ngoku abekwa esweni esibhedlele, abakhoukulungele ukufumana umnikelo. Ukuba bakwisimo sesibhedlele, qiniseka ukwazisa nabani na obaphathayo ukuba bangumnikeli ukuba abanalo olu lwazi.
Yenza uLungiselelo lwePropathi kunye neZilwanyana
Ngaphambi kokuba umzali wakho asweleke, kubalulekile ukuba iipropathi kunye nezilwanyana zasekhaya zikhathalelwe ngokufanelekileyo ukuze kungabikho mfuneko yokuba nexhala malunga noku kamva. Ukwenza njalo:
- Qinisekisa ukuba ikhaya litshixiwe, zonke izixhobo zombane zicinyiwe, iifestile zikhuselekile, nomnini-mhlaba (ukuba ukhona) uyaziswa ngale meko.
- Dlulisa imeyile kubo kwikhaya lakho kwaye ugcine amatyala abo acwangcisiwe ukuze bahlawulwe ngokukhawuleza.
- Ukuba banezilwanyana zasekhaya, qiniseka ukuba unaye umntu odwelisiweyo okwaziyo ukuzikhathalela okwethutyana okanye ukuzamkela ngokusisigxina.
- Umyolelo wabo unokuba nemiyalelo ethe kratya malunga neminqweno yabo yezilwanyana zasekhaya kunye nepropathi.
Yintoni omele uyenze Emva koMngcwabo okanye iSikhumbuzo
Emva komngcwabo, kukho imisebenzi embalwa ekufuneka igcinwe ngokukhawuleza. Kufuneke u:
- Odola iikopi ezimbalwa yomzali wakhoisatifikethi sokubhubhaezinye (iinkampani zeinshurensi, iibhanki, iiakhawunti zezemali, njl.njl.) zingayidinga njengobungqina bokufa.
- Yazisa ngoKhuseleko loLuntuUkusweleka komzali wakho ukuba ubungagunyazisanga umngcwabo ukuba wenze njalo kwaye ufumanise malunga nawo nawuphi naizibonelelo zokufausenokuba nelungelo lokufumana.
- Dibana negqwetha elichazayo malunga nelifa.
- Yazisa i-inshurensi yezempilo, i-inshurensi yobomi, kunye nazo naziphi na ezinye iinkampani zeinshurensi ngokudlula kwazo kwaye zikulungele ukuthumela iIkopi yesatifikethi sokubhubha kwabokwinkampani nganye.
- Rhoxisa ilayisensi yabo yokuqhuba ke abasekho kwinkqubo ngokunxibelelana ne-DMV.
- Vala naziphi na iiakhawunti ezinxulunyaniswe nobukho kwi-Intanethi.
Ukuphatha iimali zabo
Ukujongana nemeko yezemali yokusweleka komzali kunokuba yenye yezona zinto zinzima kwabanye. Ukuba ungumabi welifa, cinga ukubonisana negqwetha elinokukunceda ngeli xesha. Kuya kufuneka ukuba:
- Yazisa umqeqeshi werhafu kwaye ifayile ibuya ngokufanelekileyo.
- Ukuba umzali wakho ebenomcebisi ngezezimali, wazise ngokudlula nje kwaye ufumane ukuba ngubani onokufikelela kwiiakhawunti zabo.
- Ukuba kuyangena, yazisa inkampani yokubambisa .
- Rhoxisa amakhadi etyala kwaye wazise iinkampani ngokusweleka kwakutshanje.
- Nxibelelana nebhanki yabo kwaye ukulungele ukubabonisa ikopi yesiqinisekiso sokusweleka.
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Nxibelelana nomqeshi wabo ukuba basasebenza ukuze ubazise ngokwenzekileyo kwaye ufumanise ukuba uza kufumana naziphi na izibonelelo.
Ukuziva ulungiselele ngokusemandleni akho
Inkqubo yokuphulukana nomzali inokuba luxinzelelo olukhulu ukuya kuyo. Njengoko iimvakalelo ezinamandla zinokuvela, kunokuziva kuluncedo ukuba noluhlu lwemisebenzi ekufuneka yenziwe ukuze ubuncinci ungabi naxhala lokulibala imisebenzi ebalulekileyo enexesha elibekiweyo.
