KWELI NQAKU
- Izizathu zokuba kutheni umntwana oselula ebetha abanye
- Iingcebiso zokujongana noMntwana oBethayo
- Into omawungayenza xa umntwana wakho oselula ebetha
Abantwana abancinci bahlala beneemvakalelo ezahlukeneyo ezinokubonakala ngezenzo. Enye yezinto ezininzi ezenziwa ngabazali kukubetha. Umntwana oselula usenokubetha abanye ngenxa yokuphoxeka okanye ngenxa yezizathu ezinokubonakala zingenakuqondakala. Ngaphandle kweentloni kunye nokucaphuka okubangelwayo, kukho izizathu ezifanelekileyo zokuba umntwana oselula abethe izinto okanye abanye.
Funda ukuze ufunde ukuba kutheni abantwana abancinci bebetha, iingcebiso zokujongana nokuziphatha, kunye nokuba ungaphenduli njani ukuba umntwana wakho omncinci unomkhuba wokubetha.
Izizathu zokuba kutheni umntwana oselula ebetha abanye
Abazali bamele bazi ukuba xa umntwana oselula ebetha, bakwenza oko ngaphandle kweenjongo ezimbi (Nye) . Abantwana abaselula abaphakathi kweminyaka eyi-18 kunye neenyanga ezingama-36 baye bazi ngakumbi ukuba bangabantu kwaye baqala ukufumanisa iimfuno zabo kunye nezinto abazifunayo. Bazama ukuncokola kodwa badla ngokungakwazi ukuvakalisa iimvakalelo zabo yaye badla ngokuphosa umsindo, nto leyo ekhokelela ekubetheni nasekulumaneni. (Mbini) .
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Ngezantsi zizizathu ezahlukeneyo zokuba kutheni abantwana abancinci bebetha abanye.
- Ukubetha okanye ukubetha umntwana
- Ukuphulukana nokuphola kwakho okanye ukuba nomsindo
- Ukohlwaya umntwana ohambahambayo ngexesha lokuphuma
- Ukubaxelela ukuba babi
- Ukunciphisa ukutya okanye ixesha lokudlala
- Ukunqumamisa unxibelelwano kunye neencoko kunye nomntwana osakhulayo
- Ukungamhoyi umntwana oselula njengesohlwayo
Iingcebiso zokujongana noMntwana oBethayo
Ukubetha abanye akwamkelekanga nakweyiphi na iminyaka, yaye oku kufanele kufundiswe abaselula. Nantsi indlela onokuthi ujongane ngayo nale meko ukuba umntwana wakho omncinci ubetha abanye (Mbini) (3) .
Into omawungayenza xa umntwana wakho oselula ebetha
Ezi mpendulo zilandelayo kumkhwa womntwana ohambahambayo wokubetha kufuneka ziphetshwe kuba zinokwenza mandundu isimilo endaweni yokuyinqanda. (3) .
indlela yokususa iseti kumabala egazi
Abantwana abasacathulayo bakwinqanaba lenguqu ekukhuleni nasekukhuleni kwabo. Ukuhambisana notshintsho olwenzeka ngokukhawuleza olukhatshwa kukungakwazi ukuvakalisa iimvakalelo zabo ezinamandla kunokubenza babe ndlongondlongo, kubangele ukuba babethe abanye. Njengabazali, kufuneka nihlale nizolile kwaye nibaqonde njengoko oku kunciphisa ubundlongondlongo babo kwaye kulungelelanise iimvakalelo zabo ngcono. Nangona lo mkhwa usenokubonakala uyinkathazo, inkoliso yabantwana abasahambayo iyawuyeka lo mkhwa njengoko befunda ukuthetha kakuhle.
Nye. Xa umntwana wakho osemncinci ekubethe: Ukukhuliswa Kwezandla Ngesandla
Mbini. UClaire Lerner kunye noRebecca Parlakian, i-Aggressive Behaviour kuBantwana; Zero ukuya kwiNtathu
3. UChristina Low Kapalu, Ukubetha nokuluma: Yintoni ekufuneka Abazali Bayazi; Inceba yabantwana kwiSixeko saseKansas
Isine. Ukulwa kunye nokuluma I-American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry
5. UCarrie Shrrier, Abantwana Abaselula Bafunda Ngokukukopa; Ukwandiswa kweYunivesithi yaseMichigan State
6. Umntwana Wam Uyabetha. Ngoba?; Iindlela