Ukutyhala ukungahoyi izicatshulwa zakho? Endaweni yokuluma iinzipho zakho ngolindelo kwaye uphume ngaphandle kwamagama akho. Imibhalo engahoywanga ayithethi ukuba ayikho kuwe. Zininzi izizathu zokuba isicatshulwa singangaphendulwa. Fumana iindlela ezintle nezonwabisayo zokuzama ukuba iitekisi zakho ziqwalaselwe.
Kutheni bengaphenduli
Xa ubhalela umntu ongenabudlelwane naye, akukho mpendulo inokuthetha naliphi na inani lezinto:
- Bayithiyile imiyalezo.
- Abathumeli miyalezo ngabantu abangabaziyo.
- Bakhetha ezinye iindlela zonxibelelwano.
- Baxakeke kakhulu kwaye abahoyi iitekisi zabo.
- Imicimbi yenethiwekhi ibangele ukuba isicatshulwa sihambe singafakwanga.
- Abazi ukuba baphendule bathini.
- Abanamdla ekuthumeleni imiyalezo nawe.
- Sele bekolunye ulwalamano.
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- Iingcebiso zoLutsha loKutya
Ngokutyala kwakho
Ukuthumela imiyalezo nge-sms yakho kungoyikisa. Ngokukodwa ukuba usebenze isibindi sokuthumela umbhalo wokuqala, kwaye abakukubhaleli. Sukukhathazeka kwaye uqale ukufa ngenxa yokuphuka kwentliziyo okwangoku. Nika enye enye ngaphambi kokuba uyibize.
Ukubhala imiyalezo kabini
Isicatshulwa sinokuphoswa ngokulula. Akukho mthetho uthi awunakuthumela umyalezo ubuza, 'Ngaba uwufumene umyalezo wam izolo?' Kwelinye icala, awufuni ukulandela eso sibhalo kunye 'Molo?' kwaye ke 'Uyandihoya?' kwaye ke 'uyinto enje.' Ngaphambi kokuba uthumele izicatshulwa zokulandelela, soloko ucinga ukuba umntu angangabinayo ifowuni kubo kwaye ucinge ukuba izicatshulwa zakho ziya kujongeka kanjani xa umntu ezifumana zonke ngaxeshanye. Ukuba awonwabanga ubuza ngokungathandabuzekiyo ukuba kutheni iitekisi zakho zingaphendulwanga, zama ezinye zezi zinto zimnandi okanye imigca emide ukuze bazibandakanye.
yintoni iwayini emhlophe emnandi
- 'Ifowuni yam ibuhlungu ... ayikho impendulo yakho.'
- 'Ukumisa nje uthi hey! Ndiyathemba ukuba nibe nosuku oluhle. '
- Ngaba ufuna ukuncokola? Ifowuni yam ihlala ikhona (wink emoji).
- Ndabona nje eyona meme imnandi. Ndifuna ukukubonisa? '
- 'Hayi! Ngaba uyibonile loo nto (faka ividiyo ehlekisayo)? LOL, akunjalo? '
- 'Ngaba akukhange uve kuwe okwethutyana, yonke into ipholile?'
- 'Hee cutie, ndilinde impendulo yakho.'
- Ukubhala imiyalezo yam kuyadika. Ufuna ukujoyina ulonwabo? '
Nxibelelana kwenye indawo
Kungenzeka nje ukuba umntu otyumkileyo akonwabanga ukuthumela imiyalezo - abanye abantu bakhetha ukuthetha ngomnxeba okanye ngobuqu. Ukuba awenzanga mzamo wokuthetha nomntu otyumkileyo ngaphandle kokuthumela izicatshulwa, kungalixesha lokuba uqinise isibindi sokubaincoko nabo ngesiqu. Oku kuyinyani ngakumbi ukuba umntu otyunyuziweyo uyimfihlakalo engaziwa mntu kwaye wenza iinzame zokuba ungabahoyi xa ubabona esikolweni okanye emsebenzini; Oku kunokuba nokudideka emntwini kwaye kuyenze ibe lapho bangafuni ukuphendula kwizicatshulwa zakho. Ukuba ukuthetha ngobuqu ayisiyiyo inketho, zama ezi:
- Ndicinga ukuba kuya kuba mnandi ukwazana. Nditsalele umnxeba ngelinye ixesha. '
- Ngaba ifowuni yakho nayo ineentloni? Masijongane nexesha lobuso endaweni yoko? '
- Ukubhala imiyalezo kugqithisile. Ndibethe (faka imithombo yeendaba oyithandayo). '
- 'Jonga izifinyezo zam. Ndikwenzele enye. '
- 'Ngaba uyafuna ukwenza imicu emnandi kunye?'
- Ukutya kwakho kuyamangalisa. Masincokole ngayo kuFacebook? '
Iitekisi eziphindiweyo
Ukuba ukhe wazama ukuthetha nomntu otyumkileyo kwaye iitekisi zakho zingaphendulwa, licebo elilungileyo lokuzisa incoko yobuso nobuso. Oku kunokuba lula njengoku, 'Heyi, ndiyabona awuphenduli kwizicatshulwa zam.' Oku kunokukhokelela kwingxoxo etyhilayo. Ukuba awukathethi ngokutyumza kwakho kwaye izicatshulwa zakho ziyaqhubeka zingaphendulwa, mhlawumbi lixesha lokuyeka ukuthumela imiyalezo. Ukuba ufuna ukubhengeza ukuphela kwemizamo yakho yokuthumela imiyalezo, inokusebenza:
- Ndicinga ukuba upholile. Ndibetheke epasejini ngelinye ixesha. '
- 'Ukuba uyadika, ndithumelele umyalezo.'
- 'Ndiyayifumana. Ukuba utshintshe ingqondo, uyazi ukuba ungandifumana phi. '
- 'Kungaba mnandi ukwazana. Ndithumele umyalezo xa utshintsha ingqondo yakho. '
- 'Ukuthumelelana imiyalezo nam akumnandi, kodwa ukuba uyafuna ukuncokola. Uyayazi inombolo yam. '
Ungaze uwajongele phantsi amandla ee-GIFs kunye nee-Emojis
Amagama makhulu kodwa imifanekiso inokuba lunxibelelwano olifunayo. Nokuba lixesha elifanelekileyo le-GIF okanye i-emoji, oku kunokukufumanela impendulo oyifunayo. Mhlawumbi endaweni yesicatshulwa esithi ifowuni yakho ibuhlungu, ungathumela umyalezo ebusweni obuhlungu. I-GIF ehlekisayo ikwayindlela efanelekileyo yokwenza unxibelelwano olukhulu. Unokuba nencoko yonke ngaphandle kokubhaliweyo ngegama kwaye abantu bayathandana. Khumbula ukusebenzisa uburharha bakho ngokupheleleyo.
Ubudlelwane bokuqala
Xa uku ubudlelwane obutsha kraca kwaye iitekisi zakho zingaphendulwa, kunokuba ngumqondiso wokuba kufuneka ube nencoko engafihlisiyo neqabane lakho elitsha ukuze usete imida yonxibelelwano. Ewe, ezi zizathu zidweliswe apha ngasentla zinokubhekisa kubudlelwane obutsha, kodwa ukuba yingxaki ephindaphindwayo ngaphandle kwenkxalabo yakho echaziweyo, awunyanzelekanga ukuba uyamkele. Ukungahoywa okungaguqukiyo kunokuba luphawu lokuba lixesha lokubaphelisa ubudlelwane. Isicatshulwa esikhawulezayo esithi, 'Nceda uphendule kwisicatshulwa sam- ndifuna impendulo yakho' ukungaphendulwa kuthetha ukuba iqabane lakho lizihoya ngabom izicatshulwa zakho, kwaye yingxaki leyo, kodwa zama ezi ukuba ukuthetha ngokucacileyo akulungelanga wena:
- 'Nantsi ihleli nesoka lakho, lilindele impendulo yombhalo kwintombi yakhe. Ngaba iya kuze ifike? Hlalani nijonge, ababukeli abathandekayo! '
- 'Iitekisi zakho ziyandihlekisa! Kwaye ndiludinga kakhulu uncumo. '
- 'Ndilinde laa mfana / intombi yam ishushu ukuba indibhalele.'
- Ndiyakukhumbula baby. Ndiyakuthanda ukufunda iitekisi zakho. '
- 'Ulonwabo lulindele ukuba lube nalo. Thetha nje igama. '
- 'Ingqwalaselo yeHlabathi! Ndifuna intombi yam e-super sexy ukuba indithumelele umyalezo.
- 'Impendulo efunekayo STAT! INDLELA YOKUBONISA UKUHLEKA'
- 'Impendulo yesoka iyafuneka epasejini 3. Intombazana elindileyo ilindile.'
Thetha ngayo
Mhlawumbi iqabane lakho lisasazekile okanye alilungelelaniswanga- banokucinga ukuba baziphendulile izicatshulwa zakho kodwa abanazo okanye banokulibala ukujonga isicatshulwa sabo ngokupheleleyo. Ukubhala imiyalezo kungenakuba yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokunxibelelana neqabane lakho emini, ngakumbi xa besemsebenzini okanye esikolweni imini yonke. Okanye mhlawumbi izicatshulwa ziyalicaphukisa iqabane lakho. Ukuba enye yezi zinto iyinyani, aincoko eyinyaniUnokusombulula ingxaki enkulu. Ukuba sele unayo incoko kodwa iitekisi zakho azikaphendulwa, zama ezi:
- Uyazi ukuba ndilinde impendulo, ndicela undibhalele. '
- Ndiyazi ukuba uxakekile, kodwa bendilindele impendulo yakho imini yonke. '
- 'Uyayazi indlela endikhathazeka ngayo ndilindile, ndicela uphendule.'
- Ndiyazi ukuba uyazicaphukela iitekisi kodwa kubalulekile ukuba uphendule. '
- Ndilinde ngomonde impendulo. (ubuso obunoncumo emoji) '
- Kunzima ukufowunela ngoku ukuba ungathumela umyalezo ngefowuni kuya kuba kuhle.
Sukucaphuka
Ukuba unencoko kunye neqabane lakho kwaye kutyhilwe ukuba izicatshulwa ziyabacaphukisa emini kwaye uyavuma ukungathumeli ngaphandle kokuba kukho imfuneko, sukucaphuka ukuba izicatshulwa zakho ezingeyomfuneko ziyabacaphukisa. Ngcono okwangoku, musa ukuthumela izicatshulwa ezingeyomfuneko xa usazi ukuba iqabane lakho alifuni. Okwangoku, ngumbandela wokuhlonipha imida yomnye kunye nezinto ozikhethileyo. Ukuba uthumela umyalezo ngaphandle komkhwa emva kokuthembisa ukuba awuyi kwenza, uxolo olulandelayo lunokulandelelana:
- 'Uxolo babe, iminwe yam ityibilikile.'
- 'Uxolo, sisiliphu seFingerian. UFreud wayengenanto yakwenza nayo. '
- 'Iminwe yam ibikukhumbula. Nditsalele umnxeba kamva. '
- 'Uxolo, kubi kwam.'
- 'Uxolo, ndizakwenza ngcono kwixesha elizayo.'
- Uxolo, ngamanye amaxesha ndiyalibala. Ukulibala yinxalenye yomtsalane wam, akunjalo? '
- 'Uxolo bae. (ubuso obuhlungu emoji) '
Uphawu lokungabi nantlonelo
Uthini malunga nobudlelwane bexesha elide apho iqabane lakho liyeke ngokukhawuleza ukuphendula kwizicatshulwa zakho? Utshintsho olukhawulezileyo ngolu hlobo lunokubonisaimiba emikhulu-Kodwa sukuqinisekisa ingxaki. Ngokuqinisekileyo kufanelekile ukuba incoko. Ukuba ukhetha ukungqubana ngombhalo, nazi ezinye iindlela ezinokuya ngqo kwinqanaba:
- 'Andisiqondi isizathu sokuba uyeke ngokukhawuleza ukuphendula.'
- 'Houston, sinengxaki?'
- 'Ngaba ke oku kufana' nexesha likaFelicia '?'
- 'Ngaba ikhona ingxaki, andazi ngayo?'
- 'Ngaba sikhona isizathu sokuba ungathumeli miyalezo?'
UkuBandakanya iiMibhalo kunokunceda
Ukuba uhlala uthumela izicatshulwa ezingadingi mpendulo, ayothusi into yokuba kungabikho mpendulo. Endaweni yokuthumela ingxelo enje, 'Luluphi usuku olunzima' thumela, 'ndinosuku olunzima - uthini ngawe?' Kwaye ukuba iqabane lakho lixakekile emini, sukuthumela iziphazamiso kwaye ulindeleimpendulo enengqiqo. Buza iqabane lakho ukuba zeziphi iintlobo zezicatshulwa abazithandayo nabazithandayo kwaye mhlawumbi ugcine iitekisi kwimicimbi engxamisekileyo, ukuba kukho imfuneko.
kuchaphulo olu malunga nabantakwabo kunye nodadewabo
Ukufumana ukutyhilwa kwakho ukuze uphendule
Nokuba uyatyumza okanye ulwalamano olutsha kraca, ukufumana isicatshulwa esingakhathalelwanga kunokukuthumela kukuphakuzela. Nangona kunjalo, sukucinga nje ukuba udutyulwe. Endaweni yokuba uzame okwesibini. Yiba nenxaxheba, wonwabe kwaye ungalibali ukubonwa.
