Indoda ebalaseleyo ithatha imisebenzi emininzi kwindima yayo kumyeni. Ukwazi into elindelweyo kuye ngaphambi naphakathi komtshato kulungiselela oyena mntu ubalaseleyo kusuku olukhulu lomhlobo wakhe.
Phambi koSuku oluKhulu
Mhlawumbi owona msebenzi ubalulekileyo wendoda ebalaseleyo (kumadoda amaninzi, nokuba kunjalo) kukuba unoxanduva lokuphosa iqela le-bachelor. Ukuthunyelwa okuvela kwi-singledom kunokuba lula njengokutya okumnandi kunye nepati okanye kubandakanya uhambo lwedolophu. Ngokwesiko kubandakanya ukuzonwabisa okuhlawulelwayo. Konke kuxhomekeke kwinto yokuba umyeni angathanda ntoni kwaye ingakanani imali abazimeleyo abazimiseleyo ukuyikhupha. Namhlanje amadoda amaninzi akhetha amanye amaqela emidlalo, njengokuya kwimidlalo okanye ukuloba. Abanye abatshatileyo bade bayeke i-bachelor kunye ne-bachelorette iparty iyonke kwaye bakhethe ukudibana kwezibini endaweni yoko. Njengendoda ebalaseleyo, mhlawumbi umazi kakuhle umyeni, ke qiniseka ukuba ugcine iminqweno yakhe, ukhetho, kunye nobuntu engqondweni njengoko uceba umcimbi we-bachelor okanye umsitho.
Wenza ntoni kwi-promAmanqaku afanelekileyo
- Imifanekiso Yomtshato Ephambeneyo
- Imisebenzi yokwamkelwa koMtshato
- Igalari yomtshato iTuxedo
Ukongeza kuyilo olumnandi lweqela lesidanga, kukho imisebenzi embalwa ekufuneka uyenzile ngaphambi kokuba usuku olukhulu lujikeleze.
- Oyena mntu ulungileyo ngokwesiko kulindeleke ukuba ahlawule eyakhe i-tuxedo yokurenta kunye nokuya kwinto enye efanelekileyo ngaphambi kosuku olukhulu. Unokucelwa ukuba atyelele ivenkile ye-tux kunye nomtshakazi nomyeni ukunceda ukukhetha i-tuxes, ukuba uhlala kufutshane.
- Indoda ebalaseleyo kulindeleke ukuba iye kuzilolongezo nakwisidlo sangokuhlwa sokuziqhelanisa. Akuqhelekanga kulindeleke ukuba anike i-toast kwesi sidlo, kuba abazali besi sibini bathatha indawo ephambili.
- Indoda ebalaseleyo kulindeleke ukuba ifumaneke ukunceda ekufumaneni izinto kumsitho okanye kwindawo yolwamkelo, okanye yenze nantoni na eyimfuneko kwisibini esixakekileyo kwiintsuku ezingaphambi komtshato.
Imisebenzi yoSuku loMtshato yoMntu oBalaseleyo
Indima ephambili yendoda ebalaseleyo kukuba ngumyeni 'wesandla sasekunene' ngomhla womtshato. Oku kubandakanya yonke into ekuhambeni kwentombazana yozuko ezantsi epasejini ukuya ekuncedeni umyeni aphumle ngexesha lokufota ukuya kungqungqa kumdaniso wetheko lomtshato kwitheko lokwamkela.
Ngaphambi naphakathi koMsitho
Ngomhla womtshato, eyona ndoda iphambili iphethe umyeni. Unceda umyeni ukuba anxibe, amncede aphumle, aqiniseke ukuba ufika kumsitho ngexesha kwaye ubamba umsesane womtshakazi (okanye omabini amakhonkco) kude kube ngumsitho omkhulu. Indoda ebalaseleyo ihlala ithathwa njengengqina kwizifungo kwaye iyakusayina iphepha-mvume lomtshato. Kuqhelekile ukuba umyeni anike eyona ndoda imvulophu ngayo nayiphi na intlawulo ayifumanayo umntu lowo, eyonikwa eyona ndoda ilunge ngakumbi ngaphambi komsitho.
Indoda ebalaseleyo iyakumela iifoto zomtshato ngaphambi okanye emva komsitho (mhlawumbi zombini ukuba umtshakazi nomyeni bathatha iifoto ngokwahlukeneyo ngaphambi komsitho). Uya kulindeleka ukuba ahambe nentombazana okanye umatron wozuko ezantsi ngexesha lomsitho kwaye ume ecaleni komyeni esibingelelweni. Ngamanye amaxesha, eyona ndoda ibalaseleyo inokucelwa ukuba ihlale iindwendwe ezibalulekileyo, ezinje ngabazali okanye oomakhulu nootatomkhulu besi sibini.
Ngexesha lokwamkelwa
Owona msebenzi waziwayo wendoda ebalaseleyo kukuthambisa umtshakazi nomyeni kwindawo yolwamkelo. Ixhomekeke kuye eyona ndoda ifuna ukuyithetha, ngaphandle kokuba inikwe isikhokelo sesi sibini. I-toast inokuba yinto ehlekisayo, enzulu, ebuhlungu, evuyayo, okanye zonke ezi zinto ngokujika. Eyona thowusti intle isuka entliziyweni kwaye imfutshane. Sivuyisene nesibini, xelela ibali elihlekisayo malunga nento eyenzekileyo xa bedibana, ukuba umyeni ukuxelele njani ukuba uyatshata, okanye enye into ocinga ukuba kufanelekile.
Ewe, i-toast ayisiyiyo kuphela into eyona ndoda ibalaseleyo eyenzayo kumsitho womtshato. Eminye imisebenzi ibandakanya:
- Ukuhamba nesicakakazi okanye umntu ophumeleleyo embekweni
- Ukudanisa ngexesha lomdaniso womtshato
- Ukuhlala ecaleni komyeni kwitafile eyintloko
- Ukuncedisa, ukuba kukho imfuneko, kwi-garter toss (esebenza njengosihlalo womtshakazi)
- Ukunceda ukucoca emva kokwamkela, ukuba ubuziwe
- Ukuhambisa izipho kwenye indawo, ukuba uhlala kufutshane nendawo yomtshato
- Umyeni obuyayo, abatshati kunye ne-tuxes yokungenisa kwivenkile yokurenta
Khumbula ukuba ngamanye amaxesha unokucelwa ukuba uhambe ngaphezulu nangaphezulu kwemisebenzi yendoda ebalaseleyo, kuxhomekeke kumyeni okanye kumtshakazi. Qiniseka ukuba uyathetha nomkhwenyana ukufumana isikhokelo kwimisebenzi yendoda elindele ukuba uyenze. Ukuba yeyona ndoda ibalaseleyo emtshatweni womntu kufuna umsebenzi, kodwa lilungelo elikhulu ongasokuze ulibale.
